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8/21/15, 12:41 AM
Objectifying Women.
I fucking hate media because of the bloody fact that they reinforce stupid gender ideas.I just saw on Facebook, a platform where children despite the allocated age limit still go against and create profiles, a video of a man using female asses as drums. All it took was 5 minutes on Facebook to make me feel nauseous. Within 5 minutes, all I saw was 70% post on things that reaches out to the insecurity of women.
a.k.a advertisements, photos of women portraying themselves seductively, self help articles like how to be attractive to the other sex with images showing an "ideal" image of a size 0 women.
Why I hate social media? because it is another part of media that makes you a SLAVE of their ideology.
So this post is for the ladies. This post is writing to myself because it is the only way i know how to ( talking to myself as though i am a third person ) :)
It is extremely degrading if you ere to consider yourself merely a women. You are not. You are not categorized solely by your gender. You have so much more that goes against the code of Femininity. You are the cage you put urself into and Ladies, you are SO much more.
There was a time when women are merely silent products of servant-ship.
We smile silently to agree. We cry silently alone in a room when we don't. We don't choose our mates. They choose us based on our attractiveness which 90% of the time seem to be because they are sex / hard to get / pretty / obedient / SUBMISSIVE. Basically, an object of attractiveness to be USED.
There was a time women were confined to be proper housewives. Their value depletes as age conquers their beauty.
I am proud to say despite all the retarded things people still use to judge women, the only enemy I have in this misjudgment is myself. Only I can make myself feel value beyond the surface level. Having the right friends and companion helps a lot but i have to believe in the value of myself.
You can play soccer and sweat like a pig. You can ignore the fact that the ball hits you and you get bruises.
You can acknowledge and argue about things you disagree with. You can do something about the emotions that you feel.
You can be a musician. You can wear things you want.
You can be loud, you can surprise people. You can be courageous to hold your own identity.
You have a bright smile. You live by spreading joy.
You have a nurturing side and it reaches out to the people with the hardest souls, even when it doesn't for some, you never let it affect your love for the others who it has worked for.
You can sing rocks songs, not just Disney.
On one hand, you can cook and make homemade scrubs on the other, you use the same pair of hands to make $ to make yourself happy.
It is not about having the perfect body but about doing the best things with yours.
You need a man to make you emotionally happy, but it doesn't mean that if you don't have one, you will be left with nothing.
Because deep down in yourself, women have a strong power, one that can be used to scheme and hurt others but this same power can be used in a humble way. In a way of cultivating silent strength. The ability to suffer in silence is form of strength. Seek solace in the comfort of making constant decisions to tell yourself that everything is going to be alright. This lie might be the one statement that keeps you sane. If it is not alright, at least you led the life you best could right? :)
It is about seeing the value in all that you are and not confining your judgements of yourself based on what the society says.
Different people grow mentally at different stages of their lives. Some people die not growing at all.