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4/27/20, 9:52 PM
BuzzFeed: My Own Take on trying out Tinder for a week.

Posting something I found in my treasure cove during my experimental dating days :)

It is like a buffet for women ain't it? But truly, when I reject someone, they often say "nice guys finish last I guess." or "you need to manage your expectations".

Ready for my buzzfeed article?

Nice guys finish last:
Hard to get? Play the game and truly, think about the type of people you are truly locking in. Run the endless search on that treadmill of games while I choose the inconsistency and surprises from something genuine, something workable and real.

Strip yourself away from the game of what ifs and enter the world or what is (: Nice guys finish last, but that’s because their partners bother learning about them and making every hard on finish ever so heavenly worth it.

Be as you are:
The phone lit megabytes of a familiar cute image. A representation of loyalty and company, and right beside, a man trying hard, hoping that the image of him and his friend’s dog will capture some innocent young heart.

It’s strange to see descriptions of people promising the world when they barely even know the different terms and needs of individualized girls: It is as if they have predicted our want for stability and loyalty, while leaving out the factors of individualism. That it takes different things to secure that feeling of stability for each woman.

Ironically, men should stop giving women what they think they want, and start observing and understanding the woman they have interest in. Profiles should show reliable facts about oneself and not heavy tainted promises on what we think the category of men or women expect from us.

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