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9/18/14, 7:52 PM
Today marks the day where i begin something new.Humans are like animals to remain sane. Truth is, the is a parallel that can be drawn between the way that animals behave and the way that we should behave.
Animal instincts teaches you to think for yourself. A dog doesn't try to please you unless you have achieved its loyalty. Animals merely look to the benefits that the other person can provide and then suck up to them by doing tricks.
Today, I learnt to stop pleasing others. Personally because it affects the way I think and eventually this mindset of mine develops to my full character. Basically, If you are pleasing others all the time to gain a certain acceptance, each pleasing instance requires a lot of work. You have to empathise and put yourself in the other's POV before committing to what should be said. During this moment, you are losing a part of yourself and trying to fit yourself into their feelings and thoughts. So Wendy, stop fitting yourself to everyone's Procrustean bed. You can never be yourself if the moments in your lives are made to think like others. Truth is, you are 100% Wendilicious. Be Proud and Confident with what you say and who you are.
Look back for a second. I have developed these thoughts, on me own. I feel like I just hopped up to a helicopter and looked at my life from a bird eye's view. Indeed. I have trust issues because I grew up wanting my brother to accept me and to treat me like his best friend. So, I viewed things from his perspective. Took up all his interest and started treating strangers I meet as naked fuckables. Eventually, it becomes a habit. Looking back, I never wanted this.
We all set up with the most noble intentions but my dear self, this is an ultimatum to choose the world or yourself. Accept everyone but be proud of yourself. Nothing to prove, nothing to lose, nothing to hide.